Love and be Loved

Love makes us smile.. love also makes us cry... but why do we still in it?

It's simple, because everyday each of us want to love and be love ....actually, i can say it is not that we want to love or be loved..but, something that can be called as NEED already. NEED ??? hmmm... am i correct?

Hushhh... so many thing to think la like that, aite?
Mmmm... loving is something nature, it is inside ourself.. when we love someone, we also crave for their love too. Undeniable right??. Either realise about it or not, deep in heart, that is what we want.

Loving is not easy as saying.. sometimes we hope the person that we love,love us too. Some are lucky,some are not. But what we sometimes neglect is we tend to hope that our lover love us too in our way.. Why it is such?? It hurts us when our lover did not love us in our way.. but does it meant his/her love is not strong? or does it a liitle than us??? mmmm... NOPE.. NO NO NO.. if our lover do not showing his/her love as we hope, it does not mean it is little than our feeling, or not strong. It is not the "kayu pengukur"(measurement) for it..  It will be unfair to them to judge like that.. :P

But then, the most questionable is.... could we stand it that way????
hah, here is the problem... try to less the expectation, try to receive his/ her love in their way, and giving ur love in ur way... Then, think... "am i can cope with this?? am i able to live like that?? am i okay with it? "... ask... ask urself, use ur deepest mind, and deepest heart...... make sure it is when ur emotional is in optimum condition---which mean, not in a bad mood, not in a sooo good mood(hehehehe). let it be in time of ur emotion is stable enough,then ask.... then, UP TO YOU... :)